Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Update Stepmother using Drugs

As of Two o'clock pm today I have been updated on some of my new blog.
It seems that the stepmother was not home yesterday when the Mother brought the children home from her Birthday time for the younger of the two boys. At that time the Father did not know where the Step mother was, he told my Daughter that the Stepmother had went shopping for the Son's birthday party, (which wasn't until next weekend) but wasn't home yet. When my daughter left from the father's house she saw the Stepmother at the drug dealer's place making a purchase. My Daughter then called the Father and asked him if he really knew where she was. (Noting here that the father works in a job that probably does random drug testing and has been gaining weight and by all indications is not on drugs at this time) He replied no why, "Is she uptown?" My daughter replied yes and he was very upset. They have been talking today and my daughter found out from the Daycare that her son has only been there on a 2 day a week basis for 40$ and that they did NOT expel him form Daycare over the sores they only covered one with a bandage on one day because he was picking at it. My daughter let the Father know what she had learned and the Father said that he has been paying 80$ a week for 5 days ... And that the Step mother had lied to him about the expulsion, as if it had happened and he had lost the money for the last two weeks. (why my grandson has sores that last over two weeks is also an issue for me). So now my daughter is waiting to talk the the Father this evening an see if he will allow the boys to be with her until he gets his issues with the step mother handled. It was also mentioned to the Father that the 6 year old's grades are slipping in school and he is getting into a little social trouble as well. He was making straight A's and is upset with himself about it. But make no mistake we all know that the Father can be a snake, and snakes can not be trusted. So my advice to my daughter was to be careful. I reminded her that the stepmother could have been buying the drugs for both of them and he is not sure what my daughter can do with the information she has on the stepmother so is being careful and trying to play my daughter because he doesn't know what type of trouble he can be in. I know if we call the Authorities it will just be pushed aside like every other time. I do this though. the step mother left the 5 year old alone in the house where the older brother of 18 or 19 was sleeping with out letting the brother know she was leaving. When he awoke he found the child unattended and called his father who then came home from work and stayed with the child. But had to miss work to handle the issue. I need to say that the 18-19 year ole works from 3pm to 3am each day so was not able to care for the child. But Thank God he was there. This is the same son that called me when my Daughter went through the relapse. He gets a blessing request in my prayers tonight.
I have to write this blog because I can't continue to hold all this inside of me. And I know it's the right thing to do...to share...and if there is ever a way to overcome this I will blog it for people like me who are at an impass.

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